Frequently Asked Questions
Q: How many dates per month will a member go on?
A: Depends on your list of criteria, membership level and personal commitment.
Q: What happens if I meet my match and I still have time left on my membership?
A: We will continue to meet with you monthly to explore how your relationship is moving forward. We will continue to offer coaching advice, pre- and post-interaction follow up, and should your relationship not work out we will begin scheduling dates again.
Q: Do you guarantee a match?
A: No, we simply cannot control the universe.
There are no guarantees in love! We do guarantee that you will be given tools, feedback and coaching - and regardless of whether you find love with Invitation Only or not, you'll be better prepared to discover it on your own.
Q: What is your success rate:
A: Success is determined differently for each person. Our members frequently consider this a life-changing process. Some members re-sign with us for another year and some do not because the tools they have learned give them the confidence to continue on their own.
Q: Do you charge for your events?
A: Yes, most of the events do have a charge associated with them, but we do strive to keep the costs low. However, our Full Service Matchmaking Clients usually have a lower cost than our Database "Little Black Book" Members. Workshops, mixers, discussion groups, and the like will often have a charge from $25 to $75, depending on the costs of the events and your membership status.
Background checks must be current to attend any event hosted by Invitation Only.
Q: What is a database member?
A: The Database is the most affordable option for joining our dating process. This means you'll be added to our Little Black Book as a possible match for one of our Silver, Gold or Platinum Full Service Clients. We do not work for our Database Members - we are working for our Full Service Clients. Our first goal is to match Client to Client, and when we've exhausted that resource (for now, new Clients sign up every day), we move on to matching Client to Database Member. If we think you are a match for one of our Clients, and that Client agrees, we will call you and ask you if you would also be interested. Then we'll set up the date!
You will also receive invitations to select events, such as social mixers, workshops, and discussion groups, where you will meet other singles that are also in the Database, or are Full Service Clients.
The more active a Database Member is at our events, the better your chance is to find love. We will not actively seek out dates for Database Members, so you should make yourself as visible in our group as possible. The better we get to know you (through events or á la carte services); the better your chances are for matches with our Full Service Clients.
Q: Where can I find your pricing?
A: Utilizing a matchmaker is a personalized investment, and every client has different needs to meet.
We can discuss individual options when we meet you for your consultation. The length and cost of the agreement reflects in the nature of our clients' needs and criteria.
Q: How do I sign up?
A: Fill out our online registration form in the "Join now!" area below. We aim to call you within one week (usually it will be much sooner) to schedule your consultation, where we can discuss your individual options and personalized pricing.